am i in the wrong?

At work, theres an so-called work-mate who always think she is a boss and tells everyone what to do. In reality, she has no status and she's only a casual worker at the service desk.

So one morning, I come into work, she stands in front of me and a customer and yells 'why are you late to work' last week? She's been doing for many times already, and talking to the customers who come in the morning and labels me the fresh produce boy who comes to work late on every weekend. I found it disrespetiveful and after that particular incident, I went and talked and discuss about the problem I had with her. I asked her not to blab about things about me to other customers because it sets a bad image of Coles and it is very unfair on me. i understand if I was late, then yes, I am in the wrong. But if she has anything aganist me, she can tell me directly, or tell a manager about it, and not in front of customers.

I see this girl as a big mouth, blabs on too much and gossips. Who wants to be around her! Pity I have to see her at work every now and then.

Now the problem is, she goes and delete me off her facebook. As we are no longer friends, now there's every chance she will backstab me, gossip behind my back and will make sure that she catches me wrong when I do something wrong!

What a BITCH she is!

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They come and go!

Ever pissed someone off?

Shall you ask them how you pissed X off? or shall you just leave it? I guess it really depends on the person. I'm in this dilemma and I have no idea what I should do. I know for a fact that I have clearly pissed this person off. Not exactly knowing what I did wrong, but I could only guess. Knowing this person for so long, it seems such a pity to break such a friendship. sigh...

I shouldn't be thinking of things that make me sad. But I cannot help it! Sometimes its difficult asking someone directly what I did wrong. That's why mutual friends exists. They can help break up the 'weirdness' i guess?

At times like this, you start to reflect upon yourself? And you'll start asking questions like, am I too opinionated? am I too judgmental? am I too in your face? am I hard to get along with? am I too annoying? do I lie too much? am I a dickhead?


Thinking about these things, they are the aspect that makes me who I am! Then how on earth did I become friends with this particular person in the first place if X has accepted who I was back then (assuming I didnt change much)? I know people change and people change their preferences... sigh...but i guess thats how friends are lost at the same time.


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